― A Life Without Strain

無理しない暮らし

Hints for a life that breathes—
kind to the body, kind to the soul.

  1. Maybe You Can Leave It There

    Maybe You Can Leave It There

    Listening to someone speak, I felt a quiet sadness. Not because of what had happened, but because the anger…

  2. A Small Beginning

    A Small Beginning

    I had always wanted to try. To do something with those small green plums that appear like a quiet promise…

  3. Back in the Rhythm of Everyday Life

    Back in the Rhythm of Everyday Life

    The day I came home from the hospital, Everything looked gently familiar, and yet, slightly new. While I was…

  4. Maybe I don’t have to rush today.

    Maybe I don’t have to rush today.

    April 1st. The beginning of a new season. The air in the city feels a little more crisp than usual. A new…

  5. I Wasn’t Really Choosing.

    I Wasn’t Really Choosing.

    I once emptied my closet, piece by piece. “I don’t wear this anymore.” “I don’t need this.” And one by one, I…

  6. Trying Hard Doesn’t Have to Feel So Heavy

    Trying Hard Doesn’t Have to Feel So Heavy

    Last winter, the air felt tight, as if I’d been holding my breath too long. My child was preparing for exams…

  7. Adapting My Day to How I Feel

    Adapting My Day to How I Feel

    Some days go smoothly. Other days feel a little heavier, even when I’m doing all the same things. Yesterday’s…

  8. I decided to plan ahead for days when I let myself rest.

    I decided to plan ahead for days when I let myself rest.

    A Day for Not Trying I often tell myself: “I want to live more gently.” But before I know it, my schedule is…